You complete me(ss)
Don't let what he wants eclipse what you need. He's very dreamy, but he's not the sun. You are. - Christina Young || Look how we killed all the princes, the castle is ours and we're gonna reign. Look how we killed all the princes, the castle is ours and we're here to stay.|| Are we livin' in a nation that's promoting segregation? Before you see my colour, you should see me as your brother - a strong, black man with a proud white mother. || You think we're just pretty things, you couldn't be more wrong, standin' strong, we carry on. Knock us, but we keep moving on. Can't stop a hurricane, ladies it's time to awake! Divas, queens, we don't need no man, SALUTE!

yungghunty:

Boy: Wanna go out sometime?

Me: No, I’m sorry. I’m really trying to focus on my career right now.

linaxtic:

darkly-stark:

ivorysorrows:

lil-miss-choc:

bonerack:

princessnecrophilia:

weeaboo-chan:

vhscars:

protest-resources:

50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada

Use, redistribute, print. 

Click image and magnify for large version.

Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticizedfiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex

it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine

i know my shit okay

im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

Let me

just

fucking

drop

some fucking

knowledge on you right now.

Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.

So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.

Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.

Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.

Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.

Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

And this post is going into my bookmarks, because it is beautiful.

What scares me most is the fact that people, misinformed and ignorant people, will now try to enter the community/find play partners with the dangerous ideas of what BDSM is. They won’t respect a sub, they won’t listen.

And that can seriously hurt people. People can DIE.

Thank fuck, I love this post

Yes, God. Thank you. Please please please don’t hold this abomination up as an example of what the BDSM culture is like.

awwww-cute:

Today my boyfriend bought a label maker

Leigh Anne in the USA Bloopers (Vevo Lift) +

Perrie with Hatchi yesterday

michalcliffo:

hemmogram:

can we talk about luke? [x]

nope. not now, not ever.

cheekbones

i am sorry followers, daniela’s been out of control recently

07-29 / 1:24

 ”I can’t stand snobbery; it’s one of the things I hate most in this world. Everyone is the same to me, I don’t see why anyone should act like they’re better than anybody else, to be honest. It makes my blood boil and I don’t associate myself with anyone like that. In the band, we’re lucky that we have each other so we keep ourselves grounded.” [insp.]

ofperrys:

shinebrightlikeperrie:

ofperrys:

shinebrightlikeperrie:

ofperrys:

im sad jana doesnt care about how my intestine feels

nor she wants to be updated about it 

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SEE WHAT? IT JUST SHOWS MY DISGUST TO YOUR UPDATES ABOUT YOUR BATHROOM ACTIVITY I DON’T NEED TO KNOW THAT OKAY 

YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT HOW MY BODY FEELS WHAT IF IM GONNA DIE LIKE NOW AND YOU WONT EVER KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO ME

OH FOR GOD’S SAKE YOU’RE NOT GONNA DIE 

EAT SOME LIGHTER AND EASIER TO DIGEST FOOD AND YOU’LL BE FINE 

07-29 / 1:21 / 7 notes / ofperrys

ofperrys:

shinebrightlikeperrie:

shinebrightlikeperrie:

do you think i can get a cold or sth by wednesday i have sth dreadful to do on wednesday and i REALLY wanna skip it

update: i might be sick, i keep sneezing 

did you close yourself in that fridge as i told you?

yeah, i’ve been blogging from the fridge whole time how come u didnt notice

littlemixupdatees Jade with fans in Scarborough yesterday